You're so Vain, i bet you think this columns about you

Since i came back on Sl i have had six people just IM out if the blue, right as soon as i log on. All complete strangers. Three have been women. Stange women. Women dont casually IM other strange women. Its just not done. This isnt my first time around the grid. So whoever yas all are, trying to be BFFs, aint happening.

(i know every spy hud there was on the market and ways you can see when people are online)

I always rez at my home, so this type of behaviour makes alarm bells ring for me.
Im a very suspicious person and today i had a conversation with a guy who was having a rough time.
At the start i felt sorry for him and im trying to be a better, nicer person so i chatted. Then i thought whoa, how did you just randomly IM me and you were born 2 days ago? I jumped up was locking windows and doors and adding the person to the banlist at my house.
Now normally i would just mute these people but as i said, im trying to change and be a good person.
His profile was spilling with how he was loving and romantic. How he was deep and caring blah, blah, blah. Basically this guy was one sentence away from getting his first period.

I relaxed a bit as realised all my old stalkers are dead or bankrupt and i listened to his problems anyway.

He was trying to make new friends in SL but no one would go near him with a ten foot prim. He asked could he come to my house but i said nah. He asked why no one would let him chat or give him romance. I told him to drop the love and romance from his profile for a start and just explore the grid ob his own but he was desperate for love.
Why would no one love this guy?
Its because we are shallow fuckers, me included. SL hasnt changed from years ago, its the same, if not worse.
I explained in the best way possible way about how much time and money goes into creating a Second Life and that he hadnt tried then no one would take him serious or trust him. They would think he was an alt. He said he had no intention of spending money and would find a good woman somewhere who didnt care about money just love. I suggested he get suited and booted and head over to GOR and buy a few Kajira (slaves)
After the convo i felt a teeny bit guilty. Is it wrong to judge someone based in how hard they have worked on looking good? Is it wrong to judge someone on their house or how serious they take their Second Life?
I went over it my head and the answer was YES. 100%, absolutley, YES. If im gonna bust my ass to look decent, then i expect the same. I really hadn't change in 13 years, im still a bitch. Aww well.
I told Mr Noob, who was still asking me my rl age, bra size, blood group, DNA to go to the Second Life welcome place and he would meet like minded noobs and noobettes there he could play with. If he did or not ill never know or care.
Anyway back to my old security systems. I had the very best in gadgets 8 years ago, so im gonna go out and do a review on whats available in 2020. No bombs this time.
 Oh and if you dId know you in my past SLife and you know i loathe the ground your feet walk on, i hope you're bankrupt and living in a sandbox.....and this column wasnt about you.
Lots of love
Natalie xx